One fabulous Thinker

  I remember hearing people say, "Marriage takes work—it takes two people willing to work at it." At the time, I nodded in agreement, not fully grasping the depth of what that meant. But as life unfolded—through joys and struggles, moments of connection, and seasons of distance—I understood how actual those words really are. For instance, there was a time when I was struggling with a personal issue, and it was only when I opened up to my spouse that we were able to work through it together. Marriage is about love and companionship, commitment, humility, and growth. Some of the most meaningful growth happens when we stop trying to appear "fine" and start choosing to be real. Yes, honesty is vital in a godly marriage. It's telling the truth, admitting our mistakes, and being open about where we are. But transparency—that's deeper. It's offering the truth before it's asked for. It's saying, "I'm not okay ," even when you don't hav...