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The Power of Bowing: Embracing Humility in Our Journey with God

My friend Meredith often shared a profound truth she received from the Lord: “He can’t lift an unbowed head.” What a powerful visual that is! When we become fixated on outcomes that we believe are best, our necks can become stiff from straining to see what lies ahead. We often cling to our limited vision for the future, convinced it’s the only good one. But in those moments, when we bow our heads in humility, we position ourselves to receive the uplift that only God can provide. We open ourselves to His direction, which is infinitely wiser than our own. Bowing instead of running. Bowing instead of fixing. Bowing instead of trying to make sense of things that may never make sense in my limited human mind. Bowing instead of resisting Him. Bowing instead of distrusting Him. Bowing when things seem to be turning around. Bowing when everything falls apart again. And bowing when the suffering makes me question the goodness of God. I’ve come to realize that suffering can actually be a sign th

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Hurting but Still Trusting: Embracing Our Human Journey

Rebuilding Trust: A Journey of Healing and Connection Trust is the bedrock of any meaningful relationship, and when it’s broken, the path to rebuilding it can feel daunting. As godly ladies, we are called to embrace both our vulnerability and our strength, and this journey of trust is no different. While it’s essential to recognize that trust issues can only be addressed within the context of relationships, we must also understand that healing doesn’t require us to return to the very situations where we were hurt. When I first experienced heartbreak and betrayal, my instinct was to retreat. I felt like I had been thrown into a storm, with my heart and mind on high alert. My nervous system was in overdrive, and I was terrified of being hurt again. All I wanted was to isolate myself, away from the potential for pain. It’s a common feeling—perhaps you’ve felt this way too. However, through my journey, I learned an invaluable lesson: trust can flourish again, but only in a safe environment, surrounded by the right people. Those initial relationships that helped me began to heal my trust were not about them fixing my issues; rather, they provided a safe space for me to explore the concept of trust. Trusting others doesn’t mean ignoring the past; it means recognizing that not everyone is a threat to our hearts. Here’s the truth: while repairing trust requires connection with others, it’s also an inside job. We can’t place our emotional stability in the hands of others; instead, we must focus on our own healing. This means addressing the trauma we carry within us so that we can engage in healthier relationships outside ourselves. Healing takes time and intentionality. It involves understanding the triggers that arise from our past experiences and working through them in a safe environment. We need to lean into God’s grace as we navigate this process. His love provides the ultimate safety and support we need to rebuild our ability to trust. As you embark on this journey of trust restoration, remember: 1. Safety First: Surround yourself with individuals who honor your boundaries and respect your healing process. 2. Patience is Key: Healing and rebuilding trust take time. Be patient with yourself and those around you. 3. Seek Connection: Don’t isolate yourself. Engage with supportive friends, family, or groups that can help foster a sense of belonging. 4. Embrace Your Healing: Understand that your journey is personal. The work you do within yourself is crucial to how you relate to others. 5. Lean on God: Trust in God’s plan and timing. He knows the desires of your heart and will guide you through this healing process. Rebuilding trust is not an easy path, but it is a journey filled with opportunities for growth, connection, and grace. As we move forward, let’s support one another in this process, remembering that God is our ultimate source of stability and love. Together, we can cultivate relationships that not only honor our past but also inspire hope for a brighter, more trusting future.

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