One fabulous Thinker

Sometimes we don't realize how consumed we've become with what is missing in our marriage. The things we need. The things we wish were different. The things we believe our spouse needs to change or improve. We notice the tone. The attitude. The lack of affection. The lack of communication. The things they forgot to do. The things they said wrong. The things they didn't say at all. We notice what they should have done, what they could have done differently, and what we wish they would finally understand. And before we know it, we're no longer simply living in our marriage. We're evaluating it. We're measuring effort, keeping mental notes, and counting what's missing. And the more consumed we become with what our spouse isn't doing, the easier it becomes to overlook what God may be asking us to do. If they would listen. If they would communicate. Suppose they would make more of an effort if they would stop doing that. If they changed, maybe things would fi...